Virgo and Gemini Compatibility
When Virgo and Gemini fall in love, there has to be an understanding of
what the other wants if their relationship is to survive and grow
stronger. It is important that the attitudes of both be understood.
Twins are symbolic of Gemini; both sides of any question can be clearly
visualised by them. Since they sometimes keep wavering about what
decision to take, it might appear that they have a split personality. If
Virgo which is stable allows for a steady anchor for one twin, then the
other can run riot without any problems. Gemini can find Virgo a little
too grave and demanding – especially when the relationship is in its
initial stages, before true commitment by the Gemini. If Virgo manages
to give a bit of time, then everything will sort out in its own way.
Most Virgos have an appearance of appealing modesty. This is what
incites them into accepting a victorious Gemini. Though the externals
might appear truthful, Virgo is conscious of the fact that there could
be scope for some kind of mistake. Gemini is extremely skilled in the
art of manipulating words to make the situation appear in their favour.
However, Virgos are sensible and down to earth and manages to come up
with unlikely propositions that ultimately wins them the battle. That
reality cannot be manipulated is proved time and time again by Virgos.
Though Geminis like to win, Virgos are so charming and polite that they
are automatically become more sedate and settle down. Geminis are high
strung, but do not feel it necessary to win all the time.
Virgo being an earth sign is pragmatic and down to earth. They are prone
to ask the question --How will my present actions help to achieve my
goals in life. Gemini is an Air sign who are more cerebral than anything
else. No focus on any goal is important for them; they would rather
move as and where and when their mind takes them. Since Virgo can be
hyper critical and Gemini might appear distant and aloof, trouble might
brew for both. Geminis flirtations are just that – nothing serious;
Virgo must understand that. In turn Gemini must take trouble to nurture
the feelings that exists between them.
Virgo will not further instigate any argument that has already started.
Their preference for calm and peace shows in the hesitation in
aggravating a tense situation. On the contrary Geminis do not hesitate
to jump into the fray and provoke a quarrel over the slightest of
issues. This can happen even when there is very slight cause for
irritation. For a Gemini a heated argument is more in the nature of a
puzzle to be solved; but for a Virgo, it is upsetting on a much deeper
level. Virgos are assisted in being less of introverts by the more
outgoing Gemini; Virgos in turn show that winning every single argument
is not really necessary. The relationship between Virgo and Gemini is
positive and beneficial for both the signs concerned.
Since both are Mutable signs, they are not only flexible, but also
adaptable to change at very short notice. Both the signs can be a little
insipid –Virgo because of a tendency to excessive analysis and Gemini
due to constant intellectual brooding. Virgos are very grounded people,
retaining die-hard values. An advanced logic and dependability makes
them very conscious of the responsibilities that exist. Though they are
very loving and loyal to the people they love, they can also be
hyper-critical and analytical. Virgos are not very skilled at masking
their feelings—whether it be anger or happiness or worry. However, if
they are able to bring their feelings into the open and discuss any
issue that is bothering them in any way, it would benefit them in every
Gemini and Virgo look on life with such differing attitudes that mutual
acceptance is an extremely difficult proposition. This is primarily
because Virgo tends to be hypercritical and this makes the freedom
loving Gemini feel extremely constrained. Virgo carries practicality to
the heights and so Gemini’s flighty ways grate of their nerves. But,
both these signs can teach the other a lot. Gemini can be helped by
Virgo to be more involved in life to the depths instead of skimming the
surface. A Virgo’s life can be made livelier and more fun thanks to the
By nature Geminis are foot-loose and change is just a part of routine.
They are charming in every aspect of life – whether it be socially,
career wise or even romance. Instead of settling down with one specific
thing or person, they are far more at ease flitting from one point to
another. Gemini and their child-like antics can be interpreted very
easily. Neither guilt nor perfection appeals to them very much. Their
personalities can change with the drop of a hat. It is a sense of acute
curiosity that keeps them constantly on the move.
Mercury signifying Communication is the overlord of both these signs.
However Virgo represents the feminine angle, while Gemini is
representative of the masculine side. Since Virgo seeks a partner who is
reliable, clear communication is the preferred mode of getting to know
the other partner so that a perfect relationship can be built up. Gemini
has a more cerebral focus and is also gifted in communicating with
In any relationship that Virgo and Gemini might share, there is a great
deal of mental stimulus and same interests shared. The company is
mutually enjoyable and both are appreciative of the other’s company. As
neighbours or relatives, there is an even better opportunity to share
all the positive qualities. Should Gemini contribute by their intellect
and Virgo by their perfectionist attitude, then any business venture is
more than likely to be successful. There are different shades of
happiness in any relationship of love they share, but time will be
needed for the expression which is very different the better part of the
time. When parenthood comes along, both these signs are very caring
about their children; Gemini is a more friendly, while Virgo tends to be
a little stricter.
There is a great deal of mental compatibility in any relationship shared
by Virgo and Gemini. Their intellectual level is at par in enjoying and
learning from each other. However, for the Gemini, freedom is
absolutely essential; Virgo is a lot more reticent and does not like too
many people around.
Though Gemini is playful in almost every aspect of relationships, the
bonding with a Virgo is not in the least like that. It is unlikely that
that there will be a full understanding between the two, but since there
is a mutual compatibility and respect too, there is a warm
companionability between them. There is hardly ever any tension because
of an underlying affection between both. Their serene friendship
continues to grow in every aspect. Gemini is able to show Virgo how to
be more sociable and keep jovial company. Virgos are just as brilliant
as Geminis, but they are not as unstable. They like to keep to the
straight and the narrow and rarely stray.
The security that Virgo and Gemini can give each other is the best
factor about their relationship. This is of course when Gemini is
allowed by Virgo to commit to the relationship without any sort of
compulsion. If the powers of their overlord Mercury is used wisely, the
relationship will be very fulfilling.
Personality Traits of Virgo and Gemini
Geminis are extremely intelligent and witty, and they can offer instant solutions. They work as great wingmen as they can easily strike up conversations with strangers with their vocal nature. But when you choose to make them, your wingman be careful as there is a maximum possibility that they will outshine you on your own game.
Geminis are also extremely clever, and it's best to avoid debates with them because the chances are always favorable. However, Virgo natives attract others with their humbleness, and positive thinking process. Geminis also overanalyze things, which leads to indecisiveness. So it would help if you kept them from making any decisions as they might agonize over it for several hours.
Mercury rules Geminis, the messenger of God and is not very good at keeping secrets. Even though you might feel excited to share your deepest and darkest secrets with them, it is better to be careful as they might end up telling it to someone else.
Geminis, in most cases, try to avoid any responsibility, and they are miles away from any boring activities. On the other hand, Leos are quick thinkers. Hence, they have a huge mental energy to think. So if you are planning for a fun night or a trip, you can surely rely on them, but if you depend on them to make a schedule for some work, then be ready to get disappointed.
Love Compatibility of Virgo and Gemini
Virgos don't compromise on their routines for anyone. They are sure about their likes and dislikes and don't like branching out or trying new things in their relationship. On the other hand, Geminis love to explore, and they hate their partners' monotonous lives. Virgos don't understand the need to experiment, and they assume that the ways they have already discovered are the best ways to find pleasure.
But Geminis get easily bored, and they hate repeating the same routine every day. They look for enjoyment and excitement in their love lives. Geminis have a habit of breaking free, but Virgos love to stay in their comfort zone. Their fellow earth sign doesn't share Gemini's idea of fun and unpredictability.
When these two come into a romantic relationship, they have many clashes. They have a really hard time trusting each other and their judgements. Virgos look for a reliable partner who can be their constant support, but Geminis require their freedom and are not easily tied down. This brings in a lot of tension between the couple, and Virgo's don't seem to rely on their partners. Geminis don't show interest in a monotonous relationship, and they love to explore new things and flirt around.
So overall, the Gemini and Virgo relationship is interesting as they do have good communication and share some common interests intellectually, but they tend to drift apart easily.
Sexual Compatibility of Virgo and Gemini
Mercury is the ruling planet of both the zodiac signs, so they might not be the perfect romantic couple at first glance. But since Gemini is a masculine sign and Virgo is a feminine sign, they have a certain level of compatibility in their sexual lives. One is extremely outgoing and ready to explore, whereas the other is quite sensitive and shy,
Even though their sexual relationship is not very promising, if they can find ways to communicate, they can agree to have a stable sexual life. But in most cases, the chances are that they will be caught in endless discussion, and they will not have any mutual understanding. So the highest chances are that they become distant and don't share any sexual experience with each other.
But if they miraculously fall in love, they will try to offer each other the required respect and tenderness to help their sex lives work. But there are still very few chances that they will be satisfied with each other. They are both curious, but one is an extrovert, whereas the other is an introvert.
Geminis can overcome their fear and run around naked, but Virgos prefers to keep it hidden. So to have an engaging sex life, they need verbal stimulation in their lives, but in most cases, they say something doesn't appeal to their partner.
Trust And Communication of Virgo and Gemini
Virgos, with their trust issues and Gemini's trickster nature, make a very complicated pair. The best thing about this couple is that they don't get jealous easily. Otherwise, they might have driven each other crazy.
Geminis are not someone Virgos can trust, and when Virgos start to analyze and doubt their partners, they make the distance in the best-case scenarios. Still, in the worst-case scenarios, if they touch through other maleficent planets like mars, they might end up having endless fights and conflicts on their infidelities.
The only way that Geminis and Virgos can be together is if Geminis respect the sensitive nature of their partner and build a source of security and be free at the same time. Virgos also need to pay their share in the relationship, open up to their partners, and find a way to stay together.
Both these signs generally have great communication as Mercury rules them, the planet of communication. They may have many drawbacks, but they will surely have great communication. Even if they get into multiple fights, they are sure to have a lot of things to talk about.
The Geminis are superficial, and their nature seems quite foolish to their Virgo partners. This might turn off Geminis and make them irritate their partners on purpose. The Geminis also tend to see Virgo's obsession for details and a schedule foolish.
Values and Emotions of Virgo and Gemini
Geminis are not emotional, whereas Virgos are sensitive but rational at the same time. But both of them have an interesting emotional aspect in their characters. Gemini is placed between strong feminine signs Taurus and Cancer that means that they have strong emotions but tend to keep them to themselves.
Virgo's biggest downside is that they are scared of speed, and they fear almost everything. Geminis are always dynamic and hate staying together to build a long-term emotional bond with their partners.
Venus tends to push away Venus and all the love with it along with the earthly pleasures that come with it as they feel that they don't deserve it. Both of these signs are ruled by the same planet, and if they can find the spark in their relationship, they can understand each other and need to run away.
They are both intelligent and resourceful and have a practical approach in life. But their approaches are quite different from one another, and they can't recognize each other's way soon. Their relationship is a clear example of relative intelligence, and they can only find a balance in emotional intelligence. But their love for rationalism brings them together, so they like the ability to reason and have a fondness for the practical use of knowledge.