Though these two zodiac signs are considered as largely incompatible and most probably lead to a breakup, there is a possibility for a successful relationship after proper communication is achieved between the two.
Aries and Virgo's time together could be best described as short, sweet, and fleeting if a good connection is achieved. These are two dynamic personalities that will leave a significant imprint on each other's personalities. Some relationships are meant not to last, but they are just part of your journey to become a better person as a whole.
Aries can teach Virgo the virtue of seeing the larger picture, being passionate about their goals, and dreaming beyond their comfort zone. Virgo teaches Aries to be nurturing to people around them, notice the little details, and be organized in Life. They both can help each other be less strung up and go with the flow.
Aries is a Fire and Virgo – an earth sign. While Aries is volatile and
impulsive – Virgo is extremely practical and grounded as well. They
judge and assess all possibilities before deciding to move ahead. On the
other hand, Aries jumps right in, without bothering to do any thinking
about the matter at hand. This trait is applicable – both in
professional and personal relationships and this could well become a
problem. Just assume that an Aries has decided on a Virgo as a future
partner. They might become very frustrated while Virgo decides what is
the correct decision to take!
The sheer dynamism of the Aries is exciting and refreshing. Their
bravery is outstanding and unhesitatingly they venture into new
territory. Aries believe in living in the present. They might be
impetuous and hasty which in turn could result in major problems;
willingly they take the responsibility for that. Alongside there is an
acute restlessness that does not like any delay – for any cause or
anybody. The precautions taken by the world at large is of no importance
to them – and more than intellect, it is emotion that rules them. So
far as the Aries is concerned, they are unbeatable and are prone to
neglecting their health. Amazingly, they manage to remain healthy most
of the time and pretty attractive too!
In the initial stages of their romance Aries and Virgo perfect the art
of fault finding. In the opinion of Virgo Aries is far too slapdash,
while Aries believes firmly that Virgo is too nitpicking. But, instead,
if they focus on each other’s strengths, Aries will discover what
tolerance and attention to detail is all about; at the same time Virgo
will lean about fun and excitement. Aries teaches Virgo to be less
serious and Virgo educates Aries about the importance of hard and
The motivation of an Aries and a Virgo in lending a helping hand to
others is quite different. While both have the truth as their base,
Aries cannot but help feeling the eye of disappointment and disapproval
on them when they act impulsively, irrationally or are late. Virgo’s
criticism stings very strongly because they work on the assumption that
they are perfect! According to a Virgo Aries is wasteful without any
reason. However they remain polite even when they are aggravated. The
irritation that they feel is somewhat mitigated by their consideration –
which helps the Aries not to feel small or humiliated.
Even as they fall in love Aries and Virgo both feel that there is
nothing in common between them, nothing fresh to know. There has to be a
continuous learning process. On the surface they appear to be
diametrically opposite. Aries is somewhat rough and ready, has an acute
lack of patience and jumps into new ventures at the drop of a hat. On
the contrary Virgo likes to focus on details, reticent, somewhat of an
introvert and plods in the direction of his long-term plans. The energy
that runs through Aries is temptuous and impulsive. Virgo on the other
hand moves on a much more even pace and is more pragmatic. These
apparent contradictions offer great lessons to these two signs – if only
they just care to look beneath the surface.
There is a strange kind of compatibility whenever there is any kind of
budding relationship between Aries and Virgo. There is a mingling of
business and professional elements coupled by a desire of both to help
each other. No matter what the relationship had begun with, an element
of business is bound to creep in somewhere along the way – this stems
from a desire of both signs to reach the peak of success. Even in family
relationships – if this pair of Aries and Virgo is involved, it is
bound to be a positive blending. Both feel confident enough to share
their most personal secrets and information – secure in the knowledge
that they will never be betrayed. So far as a romantic liaison is
concerned, elasticity will bring a blending of confidentiality and
passion. Both these signs take parenthood very seriously. This step is
taken after a lot of thought, but commitment brings about parents who
Mars rules Aries and Mercury is the ruling planet of Virgo. Aries tends
to leap forth into battle without wasting any time in reflection or
planning beforehand. Directly in contrast Virgo prefers to analyse
first and understand everything before coming to any decision. There is
bound to be some discord when there are such opposite points of view. A
conscious effort will have to be made by both – so that no break of
either Aries or Virgo is the unfortunate result.
The practical way of living that Virgos prefer is primarily because of a
dependence on intellect. They nurture grave doubts about whether
emotions can truly be of any help. It is their nature to don their
thinking caps and use their wits to sift through any matter in hand, no
matter how lengthy or detailed. If the situation so demands Virgos can
be extremely critical too about the matter they are reflecting on. They
are also alert to their physical well-being and try to keep as healthy
as possible. There is no rush that a Virgo feels to reach success – they
move slowly, precisely and accurately in the direction of success.
Their feelings are not vented very easily and they tend to keep emotions
bottled up not just from the world at large, but from themselves too.
Virgo is a Mutable and Aries a cardinal sign. Aries just has to make
suggestions every now and then – but a Virgo doesn’t feel any urgency to
assume the mantle of being a leader. He is more than happy to follow
suggestions – once he has decided that worth pursuing. In a situation
where both these signs are working as a team, it is indeed a very
Of course it must be admitted that this is a tough combination. Both
have very modest needs, but they are both very different. Virgo looks
for safety and unhurried movement forward; Aries on the other hand looks
for fervour and all the excitement possible. At the same time it must
be admitted that both these signs can be very active and honest with
each other – right to the very end.
The relationship between and Aries and a Virgo can be very patchy and
troublesome because they are intrinsically very different. Aries believe
that Virgos are insensitive. Virgos at the same time are convinced that
Aries are silly and thoughtless. In matters of finance too their points
of view are poles apart. This could lead to serious differences between
them. There is the possibility of smooth sailing, but for that there
has to be very good understanding between the two. Sorting out
differences is a bad idea as it can only lead to open confrontation. If
both take the time to appreciate the other’s strengths, their
association is bound to be successful. Aries can learn all about
patience while Virgo can give learning the art of trusting instincts and
gut feeling a good shot. They have to learn to believe in themselves as
well as others.
To the Aries Virgos might seem rather unfeeling and fussy – because they
want matters to be crystal clear all the time. But, Virgos are
emotional – but they are that much better at hiding their feelings. They
are born introverts and reticent to boot. There is a feeling of
nervousness when a Virgo has to be around an Aries – because they are a
little wary about the Aries spontaneity and openness. There is bound to
be a need to be firm with an Aries at time – and that strong stance is
too much for them to stomach. If a Virgo feels that the situation is
slipping away beyond his control, they cover that feeling of inadequacy
by being nit-picking and judgemental. This becomes a stumbling block for
an Aries who lacks the time and patience listening to a person
detailing all his faults and mistakes. Practicalities bore them. There
is a far better response when there is positivism, which the Aries
regards as being truly beautiful.
In the Aries – Virgo relationship, it is the team work that can make the
most positive contribution. Since they are so different, they make a
good foil for each other.
Individuals with this personality trait tend to be highly passionate and fiery in nature. They are born leaders, competitive to an Nth degree. These people will inspire confidence and excitement wherever they will go. Even the people who will misinterpret their behaviour as arrogant and selfish will have something positive to say about them. These people are highly dedicated to proving their worth to the world and climbing social status.
However, when it comes to interpersonal relationships, they can be emotionally stunted and lack the gentleness that people sometimes demand. Aries are hopeless romantics at heart because of their connection to Mars. They are out on the lookout to find soulmates that can make them feel whole again as people. Inherent likes are being ambitious, driven and have a great worth ethic. They dislike people who are lazy, unmotivated and have no grander ambition in Life.
Personality Traits of Virgo Zodiac
Virgo's core drive is being efficient in Life and organized in every aspect of their lives. There's a plan for navigating through Life and tend to avoid going the road less travelled. They are in denial of emotions as logic and reason prevail over their outlook on life. People can wrongly perceive Virgo's as icy due to their emotional blocks, while they might be compassionate and tender souls.
A very conservative and controlling outlook towards life makes them natural caregivers. They thrive in career options that require organizational aspects like writing, wedding planning, managers, etc. They can blend into any chaotic setting and tend to fix the issues around them.
What is their greatest strength being a detail-oriented mindset, can also be the biggest flaw. Deep insecurities and unnecessarily being critical about themselves can lead to issues in their personal, professional Life. Lack of confidence and self-esteem due to their ways. They would have to learn the art of letting go of things that they can't fix and being more free will in nature. Take the road that is less travelled.
Their chances of being in love as a couple are low to none. Both might confuse their respect for one as a form of love, but once they get into a relationship, they will realise it was an illusion. As a couple, they will quarrel with one another and have a miserable sex life. The chances of love and affection are slim to none.
A sexual connection between Aries and Virgo is a mysterious event that happens once in a blue moon. Even if some initial attraction were established between the two, the sobering reality would set in quite early on in their relationship. Virgos are Asexual to a certain extent that the Aries will think they are wearing a chastity belt around their waist. The foreplay between the two will seem more like song and dance that Aries will trudge along to. Virgo's will make their partner work hard and, once they are ready to consummate their union, will throw a hissy fit over the brutal nature of sex.
How did these two become attracted to each other is anybody's guess? A successful union between these two personalities will be as rare as Halley's Comet appears in the night sky.
By any chance, they manage to overcome their sexual difficulties. Priorities for both Aries and Virgo are reasonably similar. No lies, deceit and be as honourable as possible. If these two manage to have open communication and channel one another, even on complex subjects like sexual relationships. Trust will be maintained between the two of them.
To create trust between the two, they would have to have some form of communication. If there are two worst possible Zodiac matches, it would be Aries and Virgo. They will bicker, fight over every aspect of their relationship. They might even pull each other's hair out in the process, unlike Leo and Aries, where constant bickering is part of their healthy dynamic. This is just pure resentment and a toxic dynamic.
Aries is ready to fight over aspects due to their fiery personality, and Virgo loses their temper when their partner is not heard. Their lifestyle patterns don't match each other, and they will not adhere to their habits. Only leading to more screaming matches and ego clashes. It will eventually lead to a breakup for good.
They both have a strong work ethic and a burning desire to achieve success in their profession. These two might connect and get attracted to each other's value system, but they often confuse this for love. However, the similarities between shared beliefs end here only as Aries believes that passion is the key to success, while Virgo focuses on intelligence to get ahead in Life. They might disagree over each other's approach to life. There's still mutual admiration and respectability between them.
Emotionally they might connect and bond with each other more deeply than sexually. Both Aries and Virgo are repressed to their emotional needs in different ways, so they will bond over this commonality they share. Virgo might strike a bond with Aries to get ahead in their lives. At the same time, Aries will find comfort in not having to emote while being with them. Friendship might be more suitable for these two, where rationality trumps the need to satisfy each other's emotional needs.