Scorpio and Libra Compatibility:
Love, Sex, Trust and Life
Scorpio is so magnetic that they automatically attract people all around them. Serenity and calm is the name of the game for them. Their outward dispassionate appearance hides emotions which are very difficult to gauge. They are enigmatic and cryptic. There is a rigid discipline about them and this is primarily because they have a burning desire and passion to reach the objective that they set for themselves or do what they really want to. The Scorpios take a long time to form opinions, but once the opinion is formed it stays that way and very difficult to change. There is usually a very good reason for any opinion to be formed and conscious decisions are made for following the decision through. Being intensely emotional by nature, they have a tendency to get hurt. They lead a tough life and when they love they love unconditionally.
Scorpio and Libra Water and Air signs. When both – the emotions and intellect are combines, the best possible decision is made; if both the heart and the head are utilized to make any decision, almost no challenge remains unconquered. This of course is subject to the fact that both these signs work together instead of in the opposite directions. As a strategist, Scorpio rules the roost and can very easily guide the Libra who every now and then has scattered thoughts. There are times however when Scorpio can be too emotional and can make the Libra feel depressed and discouraged. In turn Libra too can fluster the Scorpio and stir him a mite too much. It is at this juncture that the Libran tact comes in real handy.
The ups and downs in a Libran’s life are no mystery to a Scorpion, who is more than capable of dealing with the matter. The initial wariness in forming an alliance dissipates very rapidly and in its place is a magnetic attraction. The Libra could make a very good effort in using charm to get their own way, but the suspicious Scorpio is not that easy to get around. However, if the same tactics are used against the Libra by the Scorpion, there are very good chances that they will succeed. Though a defeat might not be conceded, Scorpios can be hurt by the Libran behaviour because neither do they know nor understand what the actual need of the Scorpio is.
Scorpio is rules both by Pluto signifying passion and Mars – the epitome lof Passion. Libra is ruled by Venus, which is the overlord of Love. All the discord and clamour that can arise in the life of a Scorpio is balanced by the Libran’s deep appreciation of romance and beauty. Thanks to the influence of Mars in Scorpio, the relationship between the signs is volatile and exciting. Neither of the signs is interested in arguing – Scorpios because they are plotting a secret vengeance and Libras because they abhor clamour of any sort anyway. They will go as far as backing down and asking for a truce or peace.
Libras have very pleasing manners and aim at being in a position where they can be in a position of authority. What is important to the is their choice to change when they want to and also their independence of course. Libra is always ready to help out when a problem arises, but not until they have carefully weighed all the pros and cons. They have a phobia about winning all arguments and will stop at virtually nothing until they do so. In any debate the Libra will look at any sides of a problem and think of every possibility till they can arrive at a conclusion where victory is assured. If there is no controversy in the argument it is fine, but shades of arguments and rancour annoy them no end. Librans basically have an answer to every query and are considerate and emotional people.
Even beside their romantic alliance, these two signs would gain if they also considered some other project. Emotive powers are combined with cerebral machinations - which makes them an extremely formidable duo. Scorpio is a lot more patient, but also far more controlling than Libra. Never can this relationship be called dull – as both the signs thoroughly enjoy taking chances. Both these signs are charm personified and know only too well how to seduce each other good and proper and enjoy doing so too. There are basic differences between the two – Scorpio is extremely reticent and fervent, while Libra is open and not too difficult to comprehend. The result is sometimes a lack of communication – and both signs have to be vigilant about that.
When bonds are formed between a Libra and a Scorpio, they are sturdy and applicable in almost every walk of life. There is enjoyment of each other’s company and their differing natures as well. As siblings or where family bonds are concerned, they, there is an equal amount of merriment of fun. There is virtually no poking and prodding unless the proximity becomes far too close. If the relationship is that of romance, then the bonds between husband and wife it is a strong and loving bond – particularly if it is a Scorpio man and Libra woman. Where parenthood is concerned, Libra children would do better with Scorpio parents – discipline and patience is better learnt; but it also works well the other way round too. So far as earning money is concerned, they make a deadly combination because both are extremely able; the only exception is when Libra tires and Scorpio is more than capable of covering this up well. When they are side by side, there is always some occasion or the other to rejoice their togetherness.
When Scorpions are upfront to the extreme about their opinions, it can cause the Libra to become very upset. Since fairness and a common ground is high priority with Libra, discordance or difference of opinion with the partner can cause turmoil. There are also instances when there is an upraise in the feelings of bitterness of the Scorpio towards the Libra because of their scatty nature of thinking. It must be aditted though that the Libra have an inherent energy that allows them to reach their goals – as long as the energy and momentum remain. If this should run out due to whatever reason, then laziness and sloth steps into the picture. What is needed in this instance is time to recoup and recover the energy levels. They are then back into their usual energetic selves. A passion for debating leads the Libra to argue in favour of both sides of the case – this also to their way of thinking ensures a win. They have an admiration for the Scorpion wisdom and pushes them to pass on the secrets and thereby further replenish their victory.
When Scorpio falls in love, their togetherness is very fulfilling and satisfying. Scorpio tends to brood and sometimes gets lost in this morass of emotions. This is where the balance and harmony which Libra has in plenty comes to the fore and helps to restore balance. As a return favour Scorpio helps the Libra to retain focus – which can be somewhat of a problem for them. Their matching needs make them a very compatible match. Partnership is symbolic of the Libra and it makes him most happy when the relationship is intimate and yet well balanced; on the other hand the Scorpio prospers when there is sexual and emotional intimacy with their mate. Both these signs have a great deal of loyalty between them and the partnership is satisfying to say the least.
However, relations between the two is not always smooth—because of both – Libra and Scorpio. When Scorpio expresses doubts about the Libran sincerity and optimism, the Libra tends to look deeper into the problem which arises. There are forceful debates between the two and the Scorpio can become extremely aggressive – whether in the positive or negative sense. Whatever the relationship between a Scorpio and a Libra, the amiable relationship that exists between the two blankets any discord or controversy and the bond grows even stronger. Scorpios have the strength and ability to truly understand and rectify the goof-ups that Libra occasionally makes. They are patient enough to wait until the natural intelligence and organizational capability of the Libra surfaces. This give and take allows their bonds to grow stronger and more harmonious.
In every single relationship of theirs, Libra and Scorpio cherish the sense of togetherness and commitment. Libra is more emotion, while Scorpio is a lot more intense. However, both are more than capable of mutually appreciating the attention the other requires. Both try very hard to find common arenas of interest and believe very strongly in fairness and that is equitable.
What is best about the Scorpio-Virgo relationship is the influence and authority that they find in being unified. When they work together for a cause or a particular issue – be it romantic or professional, a great deal can be achieved. Both can be categorized as winners. Neither of them will even think about giving it up until what has been visualized is achieved.