Scorpio and Gemini Compatibility:
Love, Sex, Trust and Life
Apparently an open book in practically everything, the Scorpio is never quite sure about his knowledge of this particular zodiac sign. There are certain secrets that are so well hidden that they are not unearthed even in the closest of friendship. This causes acute discomfort to the Scorpion once he realizes this state of affairs. Gemini because of his inherent nature is very fond of a good gossip session and this in yet another factor that irritates the usually reticent Scorpio. Gemini is somewhat lacking in true love and affection and loyalty to boot. This remains absolutely unacceptable to Scorpio as a partner. Whatever deep secrets Scorpio has is perfectly safe with Gemini, though they do not remain buried quite as deeply. It must be admitted however that Scorpio is rather dominating and inherently suspicious by nature – this remains an irritant for Gemini. The reasons for an initial attraction between Gemini and Scorpio is practically non existent because they differ in practically every aspect. Some sort of external stimulus has to be the reason behind this event happening. However, once the great clash actually takes place, there are definitely fireworks that spark.
Mercury signifying communication and is the Gemini overlord; Scorpio on the other hand is ruled jointly by Pluto – symbolic of power and Mars epitomizing passion. Emotional intensity alongside sexual fervour is one the chief characteristics of Scorpio; at the same time they need to be reassured all the time that their partner values them just as much as they do them.
However, should the Gemini genuinely feel a sense of dedication, then with their skills in communication, there should be no problem in communicating this to Scorpio. But the Geminis will not enter into a world of make belief and give assurances that they do not mean. So Scorpios would do best to hold on to their horses and wait for that genuine communication, when the Gemini is ready to do so.
By nature Scorpios are superstitious and can see through and understand the Gemini façade. It is impossible for them to even conceive the idea of this constant change in practically every aspect of their lives. In comparison Gemini cannot bear the thought of the same cold Scorpio who is rigid about his own beliefs and nature – change is an absolute necessity to a Gemini. For them regularly changing stimulation is absolutely necessary and without this Gemini cannot truly be happy. Insatiable curiosity is the name of the game for them and without large dollops of information, it is practically impossible for them to function. Seeing any relationship or even friendship to the end is difficult for them to visualize; however, they have no problem at all about moving on to newer relationships.
Gemini and Scorpios are Air and Water signs respectively. Their combination can be counted amongst the best of all as brains or intellect (Air) combine with emotions (water). There is a combination of the heart and the mind. What can be a little tricky is to get both these elements to tango together. Scorpio can be turbulent and disturbed and difficult to be cohesive. Suppose a decision is needed about some project, help can be extended to the flighty Gemini to concentrate on the best option. Scorpio in turn learns from Gemini to give up when there is virtually no chance of progress in any direction. The flipside about the two signs getting together is the Scorpion tendency to emotionally manipulate. This can have a dampening effect on Gemini’s enthusiasm and thus they can just move away.
Geminis are always changing and thinking about everything that needs doing once again and differently each time. This sign moves so fast that keeping track of their movements becomes virtually impossible. The secret elixir that keeps them going is constant experimentation. Though they are savvy and smart, they tend to be moody and difficult too. At one moment they can be happy and whistling away merrily and at the next they are cranky and difficult to get along with. Freedom of movement is essential and so is independence. They are craftsmen with words and use their skill to get the listeners around them to their way of thinking. They are usually successful in attempting to do so, because they are not erratic in any way.
This bonding is not only passionate but also replete with arguments. For a Gemini, arguments are an undeniable proof of mental agility. What makes Scorpio very very jealous is the strong inclination Gemini has for flirting, which is the very breath of life to them. No matter what the situation this relationship cannot be called dull in any way. Neither of the signs loses any chance to enliven it. However, if the arguments become so much that it turns unpleasant efforts must be made at reconciliation.
If in the long run a romantic relationship develops between a Scorpio and a Gemini, there will simultaneously be loyalty as well. The magnetic attraction that is present even has the effect of drawing the Gemini to a halt and reflect on what is making them feel in this manner. Scorpios like to take their time in coming to any major decision. This apparently laid-back attitude tends to irritate the Gemini. The more that Scorpio feels insecure and apprehensive; it seems to be increased assurance and confidence to the world in general. Gemini is fairly easy to read and their fluctuating emotion and thoughts and plans can easily be made out from their attitude.
If Scorpio and Geminien to fall in love, a better understanding will have to develop as well as a greater acceptance of the underlying differences between them. Should this actually be made possible, the bonds will be virtually unbreakable. Gemini generally does not find it very difficult to adjust; at the same time they have leanings towards the cerebral, are extroverts and very social by nature. On the other hand Scorpios are extremely enigmatic, set on completion of their agenda, penetrating and motivated. Everything and everybody, including their lover is taken on a very light note by Gemini; Scorpio is the absolute opposite and emotional connectivity and closeness is very important to them. Generally Scorpions remain absolutely faithful to their counterpart and to the relationship that they share.
Intensity is characteristic of the Scorpion in every aspect of their lives. They are tenacious and have an iron control over themselves. It is also a fact that they can just as easily become immersed in gloom or soar to unimaginable joys. Those who are dominating are always on the lookout for power, but remain truly loyal to all those who are loyal to them too. Even if any situation seems apparently impossible to handle, a Scorpio somehow manages to find a way out. In short Scorpions are forceful, cryptic and a very sturdy genre of people. It is very rarely that they reveal anything vital about themselves and can carry a secret to their deaths if the situation so demands. Passionate by nature, Scorpios are highly intelligent and like to delve deep into matters.
A Gemini and a Scorpio are Mutable and Fixed signs respectively. Momentary impulsive fancies are quite often behind the Gemini taking any decision; on the contrary a Scorpio usually has some hidden agenda in mind or a plan that is not being revealed. Geminis can learn how to utilise their resolve and emphasis to realise the value of actually completing any task at hand before flitting and moving on to the next attraction. Both these signs have to come to an understanding about savouring a satisfying relationship. This is possible by Gemini coming forth with reasoning and intelligence and Scorpion contributing just as much provocative amounts of sex , passion and of course emotion too – the relationship will then be wonderfully satisfying.
Scorpios generally have a smooth relationship with their relatives and friends and colleagues in whatever project they undertake together. However, a deep intimacy is generally avoided as far as possible. Any commercial proposition is good as long as Geminis and Scorpios can give mutual respect and credence to the former’s intellect and the latter’s stamina; further, a strong effort has to be made to avoid differences and arguments as far as possible. By and large a romantic relationship does not work out very well as there are far too many issues to iron out before this becomes a viable proposition. Scorpions and Geminis make good parents; the Scorpio tends to favour discipline more, while Gemini is more of a buddy.
When Gemini and Scorpio work cohesively as a unit, they exude strength, which is the best part of their relationship. Both can be firmly categorised as champions and if there is a relationship at all, they will never settle for anything but the best.