Scorpio and Aquarius Compatibility:
Love, Sex, Trust and Life
Aquarians are generally temperamental by nature, but at the same time also warm, witty and peaceful. Appearing eccentric to most people, they are natural born geniuses and achieve success in a manner that is absolutely different from the perceptions of the rest of the world. But one of the points they constantly brood on are the major problems that are in the world and how to get rid of them. The Aquarius hardly ever thinks negative and their level of spirituality is usually on a much higher level than most. Independence is of utmost importance to them and that being taken away is unacceptable in any circumstance. Whatever respect is shown to them, they return manifold times. Aquarius are almost always fair and cherish equality at all costs.
Aquarius and Scorpio are both single-minded in wanting their own way; unfortunately it so happens that in a romantic alliance at least their ways are very different. Scorpio will not stop at ferreting out any truth that has instigated his curiosity and will unhesitatingly ask questions till his curiosity fully satisfied. Aquarius is much more equitable and yet does not pay that much attention to details. Initially the interest of the Scorpio could be tickled because of the new vistas that the Aquarius seems to introducing. Yet ultimately there could be a great deal of frustration because of lack of proper answers from this unconventional entity. Possessiveness is not something that the Aquarius enjoys, but a Scorpio can be the very epitome of that and want far more attention than the Aquarius is adept at giving. If the Aquarius allows for the time and space for the Scorpio to draw near, they will probably find that the Scorpio is a lot more strengthening than they had anticipated.
If a feeling of antipathy is once aroused in a Scorpio, they can remember it for a very long time. The Aquarius might have reacted the same way – but their short span memory does not allow for a grudge to be held on to for a very long time. Usually an Aquarius manages to remain calm in the most tumultuous of times and does not let any anger disturb the equilibrium. They are so open about what is bothering them that the Scorpio can sense it from a long distance and has all the time in the world to tuck away any secret that he does not want to reveal. Both the signs are somewhat pig-headed, goal oriented and do not like acknowledging that a different opinion has viability. This is what could cause problems in the relationship. Taking into account all that is characteristic of these two signs, they are what add to the dynamic nature of the relationship.
Uranus and Saturn rule Aquarius, while Mars and Pluto are the rulers of Scorpio. Saturn contains energy and is cool; Uranus focuses on what is out of the norm. Mars is masculine energy and is radical and hard-hitting; Pluto throws light on these and there is also a cyclical and re-birthing element. Aquarius has to put in a lot of hard work thanks to Saturn and Uranus confers on them the ability to think ahead. If Scorpio can manage to be a little gentle and not hem in the Aquarius, then emotional stability and bonding will be that much easier. An Aquarius who is understanding allows Scorpio to see the value of keeping calm and detaching themselves when there is too much turbulence – while re-evaluating their objectives.
An Aquarius and Scorpio relationship is bound to face some glitches because Scorpios are penetrating and ardent, but also extremely respectful of privacy. By contrast Aquarians are more free-wheeling and it is independence that appeals to them the most. Though Scorpios seem gentle and soft spoken, they can be extremely ruthless and scheming. Additionally, they can also be somewhat Scrooge like and not approachable in any way. It is almost impossible to conquer a Scorpio; they always give an impression of calm and nonchalance, though there might aa volcano of emotions in them. The surface of the Scorpio hides the intense drive to enhance their professional and private lives. Luxuries and a high standard of living comes naturally to them. Scorpios can swing to extremes – from the peak of joy to the nadir of depression. A display of emotions is very rare and are very adept at hiding what they do not want to reveal. What the Scorpio displays to the world is not necessarily what they actually are or what they are actually feeling.
Being Fixed Signs both Aquarius and Scorpio can be rigid, inflexible and persevering. They will not budge an inch from any plan unless some sort of positive result is derived. Once a decision has been reached, there is no retreating and they make a very good pair who will not stop working at the relationship. However there are so contradictions and differences that the relationship just might turn out to be more problematic than pleasurable. However if the relationship is worth anything at all, then it will not be too difficult to overcome these difficulties.
If it is a family type or a business relationship, then the bonding between an Aquarius and Scorpio is more likely to succeed. A professional tie-up is usually good because it is easy to be on good terms with an Aquarian and the Scorpio takes good care to ensure that matters do not go out of hand. In a family bonding it is a better performance the chances of a clash are a lot less and the respective lives are not that affected. However, if it is a marital relationship, there are very good chances of heated clashes and subsequent break-up. As children and parents, it is a good relationship, particularly if the children are Aquarius and the parents Scorpio.
Aquarius and Scorpio are Air and Water signs respectively. Intellect being the focal point of Aquarius, life is looked upon as a chance to develop and explore; Scorpio however remains more analytical. Aquarius looks to be stimulated, while Scorpio looks for purpose. The origins of understanding in a romantic alliance are difficult for this couple. If Scorpio is too possessive, problems can arise; should the Aquarius turn too nonchalant and uncaring and does not offer Scorpio the emotional reassurance needed. Both should accept that they have different viewpoints regarding the world and should celebrate rather than negate their differences. This would bolster the strength in their relationship.
In this relationship Scorpio can help the Aquarius to learn discipline and self-control; the Aquarius can in turn do the same as regards letting go easily, not holding on to grudges with anyone with whom the Scorpios have a difference of opinion. If the Scorpio is enraged with someone for whatever reason, they remain angered for a very long time. Though an Aquarius is not quite so adept at nurturing anger, if they lose their cool, they attack in a frenzied fashion & this where the control of the Scorpio could come in great use. A Scorpio is by and large careful about the money they spend, but an Aquarius doesn’t even remember half the time what money he has or even whether he has already spent it. Generally this relationship has a very vacillating outcome, but for them it is best to take it slow and easy.
In a romantic alliance the Scorpio and Aquarius have very different outlooks and philosophies. It is likely that will be a great amount of strife. The Scorpio internalizes their emotions with a great deal of energy and gives a great deal of thought to the undercurrents that life has secreted away. On the other hand Aquarius pushes these emotions in an outward direction. Their reactions are very sociable and certainly not run of the mill; thus their coming together is in itself a very difficult coming together. For the Aquarius to feel stimulated, it is necessary for crowds to be milling around. They are is always in search of some fellow eccentric to strike u a conversation with! By contrast a Scorpion is the most relaxed with a partner in close and intimate surroundings. Both might be very different, but are very stubborn and set in their ways and if determined can always manage to get their own way in the relationship.
Particularly where both are concerned, the relationship between them and practically anything else cannot have any unresolved mystery – they just have to get to the bottom of the matter. All the skeletons in the cupboard of any other person has to be deeply delved into until all the mysteries are unravelled and what comes up is seen and understood. The Scorpio is difficult and the Aquarius is wild – and so the coming together simply has to be a meeting of minds. Perceptions and ideas are taken to a whole new level.
Synergy which also ushers in great success is the best factor of the Scorpio Aquarius relationship. Since both realise their potency, none will even attempt to dominate the other. At a point when they can both appreciate their differences and can come to some sort of an agreement on their individual roles in the partnership they share, the results are immeasurably satisfactory.