Gemini and Virgo Compatibility:
Love, Sex, Trust and Life
When Virgo and Gemini fall in love, there has to be an understanding of what the other wants if their relationship is to survive and grow stronger. It is important that the attitudes of both be understood. Twins are symbolic of Gemini; both sides of any question can be clearly visualised by them. Since they sometimes keep wavering about what decision to take, it might appear that they have a split personality. If Virgo which is stable allows for a steady anchor for one twin, then the other can run riot without any problems. Gemini can find Virgo a little too grave and demanding – especially when the relationship is in its initial stages, before true commitment by the Gemini. If Virgo manages to give a bit of time, then everything will sort out in its own way.
Most Virgos have an appearance of appealing modesty. This is what incites them into accepting a victorious Gemini. Though the externals might appear truthful, Virgo is conscious of the fact that there could be scope for some kind of mistake. Gemini is extremely skilled in the art of manipulating words to make the situation appear in their favour. However, Virgos are sensible and down to earth and manages to come up with unlikely propositions that ultimately wins them the battle. That reality cannot be manipulated is proved time and time again by Virgos. Though Geminis like to win, Virgos are so charming and polite that they are automatically become more sedate and settle down. Geminis are high strung, but do not feel it necessary to win all the time.
Virgo being an earth sign is pragmatic and down to earth. They are prone to ask the question --How will my present actions help to achieve my goals in life. Gemini is an Air sign who are more cerebral than anything else. No focus on any goal is important for them; they would rather move as and where and when their mind takes them. Since Virgo can be hyper critical and Gemini might appear distant and aloof, trouble might brew for both. Geminis flirtations are just that – nothing serious; Virgo must understand that. In turn Gemini must take trouble to nurture the feelings that exists between them.
Virgo will not further instigate any argument that has already started. Their preference for calm and peace shows in the hesitation in aggravating a tense situation. On the contrary Geminis do not hesitate to jump into the fray and provoke a quarrel over the slightest of issues. This can happen even when there is very slight cause for irritation. For a Gemini a heated argument is more in the nature of a puzzle to be solved; but for a Virgo, it is upsetting on a much deeper level. Virgos are assisted in being less of introverts by the more outgoing Gemini; Virgos in turn show that winning every single argument is not really necessary. The relationship between Virgo and Gemini is positive and beneficial for both the signs concerned.
Since both are Mutable signs, they are not only flexible, but also adaptable to change at very short notice. Both the signs can be a little insipid –Virgo because of a tendency to excessive analysis and Gemini due to constant intellectual brooding. Virgos are very grounded people, retaining die-hard values. An advanced logic and dependability makes them very conscious of the responsibilities that exist. Though they are very loving and loyal to the people they love, they can also be hyper-critical and analytical. Virgos are not very skilled at masking their feelings—whether it be anger or happiness or worry. However, if they are able to bring their feelings into the open and discuss any issue that is bothering them in any way, it would benefit them in every way.
Gemini and Virgo look on life with such differing attitudes that mutual acceptance is an extremely difficult proposition. This is primarily because Virgo tends to be hypercritical and this makes the freedom loving Gemini feel extremely constrained. Virgo carries practicality to the heights and so Gemini’s flighty ways grate of their nerves. But, both these signs can teach the other a lot. Gemini can be helped by Virgo to be more involved in life to the depths instead of skimming the surface. A Virgo’s life can be made livelier and more fun thanks to the extrovert Gemini.
By nature Geminis are foot-loose and change is just a part of routine. They are charming in every aspect of life – whether it be socially, career wise or even romance. Instead of settling down with one specific thing or person, they are far more at ease flitting from one point to another. Gemini and their child-like antics can be interpreted very easily. Neither guilt nor perfection appeals to them very much. Their personalities can change with the drop of a hat. It is a sense of acute curiosity that keeps them constantly on the move.
Mercury signifying Communication is the overlord of both these signs. However Virgo represents the feminine angle, while Gemini is representative of the masculine side. Since Virgo seeks a partner who is reliable, clear communication is the preferred mode of getting to know the other partner so that a perfect relationship can be built up. Gemini has a more cerebral focus and is also gifted in communicating with others.
In any relationship that Virgo and Gemini might share, there is a great deal of mental stimulus and same interests shared. The company is mutually enjoyable and both are appreciative of the other’s company. As neighbours or relatives, there is an even better opportunity to share all the positive qualities. Should Gemini contribute by their intellect and Virgo by their perfectionist attitude, then any business venture is more than likely to be successful. There are different shades of happiness in any relationship of love they share, but time will be needed for the expression which is very different the better part of the time. When parenthood comes along, both these signs are very caring about their children; Gemini is a more friendly, while Virgo tends to be a little stricter. There is a great deal of mental compatibility in any relationship shared by Virgo and Gemini. Their intellectual level is at par in enjoying and learning from each other. However, for the Gemini, freedom is absolutely essential; Virgo is a lot more reticent and does not like too many people around.
Though Gemini is playful in almost every aspect of relationships, the bonding with a Virgo is not in the least like that. It is unlikely that that there will be a full understanding between the two, but since there is a mutual compatibility and respect too, there is a warm companionability between them. There is hardly ever any tension because of an underlying affection between both. Their serene friendship continues to grow in every aspect. Gemini is able to show Virgo how to be more sociable and keep jovial company. Virgos are just as brilliant as Geminis, but they are not as unstable. They like to keep to the straight and the narrow and rarely stray.
The security that Virgo and Gemini can give each other is the best factor about their relationship. This is of course when Gemini is allowed by Virgo to commit to the relationship without any sort of compulsion. If the powers of their overlord Mercury is used wisely, the relationship will be very fulfilling.