Gemini and Leo Compatibility:
Love, Sex, Trust and Life
Gemini and Leo usually have a troubled relationship. Geminis penchant for flitting from one point to another taxes the Leo patience to a very large extent. If there is a mishap, Gemini does not hesitate to run off in search of fresh and pristine pastures. To a Leo this seems extremely unseemly and rude. Though they might love a Gemini, Leos do not hesitate in giving them a thorough dressing down into realizing the stupidity and irresponsible nature of their behaviour. Despite realizing that what the Leo is saying is true,Geminis are disproportionately annoyed at having their mistakes pointed out so sharply. If the Leo can learn to adjust a little, they will learn to accept what the Gemini is very justified in pointing out. In turn Geminis would also do well to consider that being grounded is not such a bad idea after all.
Gemini is a Mutable and Leo a Fixed Sign. Leo could be somewhat inflexible, though an inspiring leader. There is hardly any scope of changing his mind once it is made up with regard to any particular issue. Whatever the project, they will see it through to the end. On the other hand Gemini is very elastic and pliable. However they have a low threshold of boredom and is more than happy to let Leo take the initiative; of course to a limited extent. Gemini wants to lead where their own thoughts are concerned. They are content to be backstage with their own thoughts, while Leo basks in the limelight.
Geminis tend to be extremely unstable and changing very frequently. However, they are amiable by nature and cannot stand the thought of pain in their lives. Though sarcasm might pepper their conversation, they really do not mean any harm. The words they use are tools to get the listeners around to their way of thinking. Geminis have this firm conviction that they are past masters at the art of analysing people and truly understanding them. They concentrate on the idea with full focus till something strikes them again. People are convinced that their ideas are not erratic; on the contrary they are focussed and full of meaning. There is a mingling of fantasy and false interpretation.
When Leo and Gemini fall in love, their relationship is frisky and spirited and are typified by positivity and not very heavy activity. What really turns Gemini on is mental motivation. Hence , the larger than life Leo full of vim and energy is a strong attraction for the Gemini. However, if Leo takes Geminis flirtations too seriously, there can be an outburst of temper and anger. This might also happen if Leo always wants to maintain total control. Suppose there is a situation, the Gemini wants to analyse and understand what is going on; however, Leo wants to get right into the situation straightaway. In this they are a perfect foil for each other.
There is no doubt that Leos are physically very attractive and though appearing hard are basically very tender-hearted. They are so faithful and kind that others are automatically attracted to them. Their haughtiness and ego is far superseded by their compassion when there is a bonding or feeing for the other person involved. Leos are constantly trying to prove their bravado in their eyes of the world so that they can feel reassured themselves. In a crisis they cross the limits even they have set for themselves. They are thoroughly pleased whenever there is an opportunity to bask in the limelight. They can handle any amount of praise that is ladled out.
Leo is a fire and Gemini is an Air sign. Thanks to air, fire can become widespread. It is not very difficult for Gemini to keep up with Leo’s inventiveness and vigour. Leo has a propensity to be effusive and melodramatic and the extremely intelligent Gemini easily understands what the Leo wants to say.
Leos are quite sure about their own bravery and courage and Geminis are just as convinced about traversing speedily down a path and not just chasing after a variety of ideas. However, both signs are quite aware of the underlying motives behind both. It is a fact though that Leo has the courage and chutzpah that they believe they have; this rises to the fore when there is a need for it. On the contrary Gemini is far too occupied running after their own dreams to even spare a thought for anything else. A Gemini is more happy to get out of the way for the Leo and watch quietly from the side-lines. Though Gemini is quite happy to bask in the attention of crowds, they just as contentedly make way for the more boisterous Leo if they are the ones who want to bask in the limelight.
Mercury signifying Communication rules over Gemini while Sun- typifying the self is the overlord of Leo. Communication is a strong point for both of them since their planetary influences are similar, but expression and approach is different. Heated arguments between them are taken in good spirits by Gemini, but Leo is far more serious about it all and can be very hurt and upset as a result.
Leo comprehends the nature of the Gemini and empathises with the need for sympathy and independence. Gemini likes to be all and all in whatever activity they undertake and take strong umbrage when others do not like themselves as much as they themselves do. Leo feels a lot of sympathy for the Gemini; it almost always happens that Gemini by smooth talking gets around the leo and in some way or the other gets them to do what they want. Leo does not even notice that they are being very cleverly manipulated.
The initial stages of any bonding between Gemini and Leo is stimulating and very pleasant and positive. They both have a charm and a certain joie de vivre. However, what Leo needs is a lot of attention and this can ultimately lead in problems for the Gemini. Excessive energy characterizes both these signs. While Leo wants to head any project ,Gemini wants the freedom to think at supersonic speed. Leo is decisive and can help Gemini to take a single outstanding decision from all the choices that lie around them. However, being too bossy will have an entirely opposite effect.
Leo and Gemini follow divergent paths in whatever relationships bond them together. In family relationships they are supportive of each other’s every need and desire. Gemini does not mind in the least Leo hogging the limelight and this makes the Leo feel even more empathic towards Gemini. The communication skills of a Gemini allows them to lay an even stronger foundation. Business projects are generally not very successful because both these signs have a tendency to extravagance and focus only on their personal needs. The beginning of a romantic relation might be good, but Later ,Gemini will have to make the time to pay more attention to a Leo so that a more peaceful relationship is possible. Both Gemini and Leo enjoy the prospect of parenthood.
If one looks at the most positive factor of this relationship, it is a fresh and youthful perspective of the world. They are extremely optimistic and like to explore new avenues.